
good for Her....no both of you.
My Wife never shot but in 2018 she asked me if I had a hand gun she can handle. Well she is left handed and all my light shooting pistols have a target grip with thumb rests and the 1911's and the .44's I don't want her to start with the recoil so I said lets go shopping

She went over the large selections of pistols and some revolvers but she picked the Ruger SR-9 because of it's light weight and short barrel. When we picked it up it was raining but she wanted to stop at the range to shoot it.
I showed her how to load the magazines and got her familiar on how to hold it and worked on the sight picture. I must say I'm glad to have picked up 200 rounds before we left the gun shop LOL.
Well I could see that she was struggling pulling the slide back and I said I don't think this is for you why don't we go shopping again tomorrow for a .22. You will have more fun with that.
Well this time she picked out the SR-22 Ruger. Man am I glad I had a case of .22 Norma's between her and I shooting my High Standard The Victor that case didn't last long and she is really keeping them in a 2" paster at 20 yards.
The little .22 was a good move for her. Since I got started reloading for the S&W 52 .38 SPL that slide works very easy I think I will let her shoot it.